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How to Network Like a Web Warrior !

How to Network Like a Web Warrior !

by on May 15, 2010 · 35 comments

Great content, good design and lots of value – yeah, yeah, we know it’s essential.

But building connections is still the alpha and the omega of spreading your brand, just like in the offline world (it does still exist!)

Who you know is more important than what you know!

Average bloggers with average content can still rule the scene if they’re tight with top-influencers.

Now I know you have brilliant content, otherwise you wouldn’t read THIS blog, right ?

So, do yourself a favor, boost those networking skills and let people know why they absolutely HAVE to find (and read) your blog !

A Web Warrior can’t make it on his own; he needs his fellow crusaders to dominate the digital webspace !

Choose your favorite social media weapon, and start crusading. These tips will help you.

Network smartly

I’d luv to network with EVERYONE, but let’s face it – we only have this lifetime, and it must be spend wisely. Create your own Twitter group, select your 30-60 most favorite bloggers and start focusing 80 % of your Twitter time ON THEM.

I use Tweetdeck for that, choose whatever software you want.

Connect by showing gratitude

No matter, everyone still wants (and needs) links for spreading. If you appreciate them, show it by featuring their blog on your posts. And don’t forget – send them a trackback. After all, you want them to know who’s promoting their message, right ?

Nobody is out of your league

Hard to swallow, but easy to digest once you understand this. Want to network with the A-league ? Find people in the B or C league who know them, and work your way up. This sounds a bit calculating, but as long as you’re interested in building genuine relationships , it’s a go-go. Social media has destroyed the barriers between you and the “top”. By providing hungry interest and kick-ass value, you can connect with EVERYONE over time.

Be a persistent web warrior

It may take some time to have conversations with the top bloggers. I used to send out tweets for several weeks without ever getting a response from them, but then suddenly, they started to follow me on Twitter, and even better – we started having conversations.

Soo, don’t give up when people don’t respond to you immediately – they want to separate the real interested bloggers from all the noise. Good things CAN take time, but with genuine efforts, you get there, I know you will.

They come first, you second

And yeah, guilty as charged !! In the beginning, I only used to promote my own stuff, and that’s really a sad, sad statement about yourself – isn’t your content good enough for others to promote it ?

If you really want to become a networking Maverick – then shift your focus. Promote other people’s stuff – especially if it’s valuable to your followers. I personally inhale the following ratio: Promote 90% other stuff, 10% my own. Works brilliantly. Try it yourself.

That’s it folks – buckle up and go wild

Remember – fun should be at the core of it – like the oxygen you can’t live without. If some of these “tactics” seem like unpleasant work to you, then drop them, they are useless to you. Invent your own and network like a Web Warrior !

What are your tactics, and do YOU have better ones ?

I want to hear them – ALL of them !




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Udegbunam Chukwudi
Twitter:
May 30, 2010 at 12:44 pm

I just discovered how fast digging can be unlike my past experience with it so I try to digg and tweet as many blog posts as I can read everyday. I must say it’s working as some folks are reciprocating of their own free will.
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Jason Jumat from I need lots of money now May 19, 2010 at 9:30 am

Just like to add to the value of this post by also saying that: If you do anything online, together with being persistent and constant at what you are doing – you must also do it with “lust”. Referring to utterly enjoying what you’re doing. Yes, you should know that there are dozens of others (make that zillions) who are doing exactly what you’re doing.
1 Do it for the fun more than anything else
2 Success will follow later.
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Bjorn | iCan't Internet May 18, 2010 at 1:09 pm

Thanks for this great post Mars! You have some great points there, some new ones, some good reminders ;-)

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Karl Foxley from Freelance SEO Services May 17, 2010 at 10:53 am

I liked this post. You’ve shared some very valuable tips, especially for the newbie who wants to start networking on the right foot.

Warmest regards,

Karl
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MarsDorian May 17, 2010 at 2:01 pm

Thanks Karl !
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Karl Foxley May 17, 2010 at 2:16 pm

I took a look at your site Mars, you’ve got a great look going on over there. I’ve grabbed your feed and I’m sure you’ll catch me lurking about in the future. :)
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Tola from SEO for Beginners May 17, 2010 at 3:49 am

Good stuff!
Sadly I can only say I RT other people’s post. I guess that’s a start in the right direction though, lol…
We’ll get there, one day!!
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MarsDorian May 17, 2010 at 2:02 pm

Hey Tola,

everyday a little work and LOTS of passion will get you there – retweeting other people’s stuff is awesome – I only tweeted my stuff in the beginning ;)
.-= NEW from MarsDorian´s last blog ..Internet Marketer VS. Digital Crusader – Who Wins ? =-.

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Dana from Blogging Tips Blog May 17, 2010 at 1:58 am

Interesting! You bring this tips in style mate. :)

I am surely will try it to improve my networking since I kind left it behind.
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MarsDorian May 17, 2010 at 2:03 pm

Hey Dana,

thanks – I truly believe in mixing pure info with personal style ;)
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Teena May 16, 2010 at 10:05 am

There’s something I need to do to better my networking skills, thanks for the tips. This I guess is what I lack to really make my blog get notice.
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MarsDorian May 17, 2010 at 2:01 pm

Hey Teena,

networking is essential – and super-fun too – go out there and DOMINATE !
.-= NEW from MarsDorian´s last blog ..Internet Marketer VS. Digital Crusader – Who Wins ? =-.

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Suresh Khanal
Twitter:
May 16, 2010 at 12:07 am

No need to say anything else other than ‘Yes’ 6 times as all those six suggestions are unquestionable and great to follow.
Well, let me start following your suggestions. I digg and retweet this post.
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MarsDorian May 16, 2010 at 7:13 am

Thanks Suresh,

I appreciate your sharing.

I follow them daily, and so far – they have worked pretty good.
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Dev from Blogging Tips
Twitter:
May 15, 2010 at 9:24 pm

Hey Mars,

Awesome post bud. kick – ass :D and me…too..agree with chandan you always create eye caching headlines “Web Warrior” Grreat !! Keep it up

Thanks,
Dev
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MarsDorian May 16, 2010 at 7:14 am

Hey Dev,

yeah, I also want to have the right mix between informative and entertaining – and a unique (and hopefully) kick-ass headline enriches that !
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Latief from AnotherBlogger
Twitter:
May 15, 2010 at 9:15 pm

I think give your visitors a link on sidebar as top commenter is generous ;)
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MarsDorian May 16, 2010 at 7:16 am

That’s true, Latief,

I also do that via Disqus – really strengthens the community !
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Gurl May 15, 2010 at 1:48 pm

Whoa.. I am seeing you all over the interwebs. And you always put out great content. Awesome tips here, wish I’d seen a post like this when I first started promoting my blog to people other than my nearest and dearest ;) My favorite your 90/10 ratio. It seems to work like a charm, because I’ve been sort of in that area for a while and twitter is now my number one site for referrals :) Still not as much traffic as I would like, but that will come with time.

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MarsDorian May 16, 2010 at 7:21 am

Hey Jennifer,

Yeah, promoting other valuable stuff is soo much more valuable to your followers/readers. A lot of great people I follow do that, and I get the feeling that this gesture makes them more successful and like able along the way. Don’t worry about the traffic – as long as you keep enriching the world with valuable stuff, flavored by your own unique voice – you will get there !
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Gurl May 16, 2010 at 8:25 am

I do try to share good stuff…hopefully some of my followers have similar tastes as me so they agree! LOL

I was shocked to see you know my name! Must have done a little homework there ;-) Looking forward to your next article :)

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chandan from work at home blog May 15, 2010 at 1:41 pm

I like the term that you use “WEB WARRIOR”, yes it is true that for success in social media we have to fight like warrior so that we can win. I am also just working passionately like a warrior just for win the social media game.
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Thomas from SEO Services May 15, 2010 at 5:18 pm

I’d have to agree with Chandan. Mars you always have such eye catching headlines! I like to focus my networking now. Previously I would comment like crazy trying to gain the attention of everyone, but that is much to hard to sustain in the long run. I love your idea of creating a ‘Twitter mastermind group’ and I can see this being extremely successful.
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MarsDorian May 16, 2010 at 7:22 am

Yeb, everyone’s a Web Warrior – the positive version that’s enriching our blogosphere.

But you want to win the social media game ? How’s that possible ;) ?
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MarsDorian May 16, 2010 at 7:25 am

Hey Thomas,

getting good headlines sometimes takes longer than writing the actual article. I’m working very hard on making them better. I used to comment all over the place, but that’s not very effective. Networking with like-minded and ambitious people and creating a Twitter group is soo much more fun and efficient.
.-= NEW from MarsDorian´s last blog ..The Winning Difference – do People Like or LUV You ?? =-.

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Ryan May 15, 2010 at 1:15 pm

I am also a heavy RT’er. I’ve recently started to add tweets to my feed promoting other’s blogs or business opportunities. People love this ;)

You can never share enough. I’ve even found that leaving thoughtful comments causes others to RT my blog posts. Share and others will be happy to share your opportunity too.
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MarsDorian May 16, 2010 at 7:29 am

Heya Ryan,

that’s cool that you showcase tweets on your feed (how do you do this?)
And yeah – meaningful comments can make a huge difference too, because too many people just add a superficial “that’s a cool post” etc, which only displays that haven’t really read the article.
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Kevin from ShootingtheBreeze
Twitter:
May 15, 2010 at 12:55 pm

Great suggestions! I have been doing these exact things for a while now and it has been working great for me.

The only one that I would add to this list is inviting the “Top Bloggers” in your field to post a guest post on your blog. I was surprised when they actually said yes. :)
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MarsDorian May 16, 2010 at 7:30 am

Hey Kevin,

that’s a kick-ass idea ! I want my blog to be a 100% me right now, but as soon as I get bigger – I will think about this – it sounds awe-some !
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